This Relationship Thing
Your Ultimate Guide to Saving and Strengthening Your Relationship
This Relationship Thing is a comprehensive course designed by expert psychologists to help you navigate the challenges of your relationship and build a lasting, loving connection. Whether you’re facing conflicts, communication issues, or simply want to deepen your bond, this course offers the tools and insights you need to transform your relationship.
Includes:
- Lifetime Access
- 15 week course
- E-Book - "Understanding Unlocks"
Original price was: $297.00.$97.00Current price is: $97.00.
Unlock the Secrets to a Thriving Relationship
Join and Transform Your Love Life!
Do you feel stuck in your relationship? Struggling with constant conflicts? Or simply want to take your relationship from good to great?
Join our free webinar where Andrew and Melissa, clinical psychologists with over a decade of experience, share practical tips and insights to help you communicate better, resolve conflicts, and build a fulfilling partnership.
Let’s Reflect
Setting the Stage for Self-Awareness
Embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth. This initial phase sets the foundation for a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationship.
Week 1: Rekindling the Flame: Resetting Context
Rediscover the essence of your relationship by resetting the context. This week focuses on understanding the past and setting the stage for a brighter future together.
Week 2: Traumatic Events – Your Story Needs to Be Known
Share and acknowledge past traumas to heal and grow. This week provides a safe space to open up and understand each other’s stories.
Week 2: A deep dive to help you turn traumas into wisdom
Engage in a structured approach to address and process traumatic events. This worksheet guides you through the healing process step by step.
Retrain
Expert-level communications and conflict resolution training.
Week 3: Building a Person-Centered Relationship
Learn the art of creating a relationship that prioritizes each partner’s needs and desires. This week focuses on fostering mutual respect and understanding.
Week 4: How to Validate Your Partner and Why It Matters
Discover the importance of validation in a relationship. Learn practical techniques to make your partner feel heard and valued.
Week 4: A “How to” Guide on Validation
Dive deeper into the practice of validation with this comprehensive guide. Understand the nuances and apply them to strengthen your bond.
Week 5: Linear vs Circular Thinking: How to Expand Your Mind and Improve Your Relationship
Explore different thinking patterns and their impact on your relationship. This week encourages you to broaden your perspective and enhance your connection.
Week 5: Practical Tips to Start Mastering Thinking
Implement practical strategies to master your thinking patterns. These tips will help you navigate relationship challenges more effectively.
Week 6: Mastering Meta-Communication
Unlock the power of meta-communication to improve your relationship. Learn how to communicate about communication and resolve conflicts more efficiently.
Week 6: Let’s Practice Meta-Communication
Put theory into practice with hands-on exercises. This week focuses on honing your meta-communication skills through real-life scenarios.
Week 7: How to Solve Problems with Your Partner Without Losing Your Cool
Develop strategies to address conflicts calmly and constructively. This week provides tools to maintain composure and find solutions together.
Week 7: A “How to” Guide with Examples on Learning and Practicing How to Fight Well in Your Relationship
Learn the art of healthy conflict resolution with practical examples. This guide helps you navigate disagreements without damaging your relationship.
Week 8: Speak Your Heart: Navigating and Expressing Relationship Needs
Express your needs and desires openly and honestly. This week focuses on effective communication to strengthen your emotional connection.
Week 9: Bringing It All Together: The Conflict Crusher!
Combine all the skills you’ve learned to tackle conflicts head-on. This week provides a comprehensive approach to resolving disputes and maintaining harmony.
Rumble!
If you avoid the conflict you will avoid the relationship. Let's grow by having some tough conversations.
Combine all the skills you’ve learned to tackle conflicts head-on. The weeks to follow provide a comprehensive approach to resolving disputes and maintaining harmony.
Week 10: How to Get Along Better with Your Partner by Being More Emotionally Flexible
Enhance your relationship by developing emotional flexibility. This week encourages you to adapt and respond to your partner’s needs with empathy.
Week 10: Assessing Flexibility vs Rigidity and How to Work Towards Finding Our Balance
Evaluate your emotional responses and find a balance between flexibility and rigidity. This week helps you create a more harmonious relationship dynamic.
Week 11: Emotional Distance
Understand and address emotional distance in your relationship. This week provides insights into maintaining closeness and connection.
BONUS – Week 11: Creating a Healthy Understanding of Emotional Distance
Gain a deeper understanding of emotional distance and its impact. This bonus week offers strategies to bridge the gap and strengthen your bond.
Week 12: Clarity of Self-Presentation
Present yourself authentically and clearly to your partner. This week focuses on improving self-expression and communication.
BONUS: Week 12: How Can You Improve on Your Clarity of Self-Presentation?
Enhance your self-presentation skills with practical tips. This bonus week helps you communicate more effectively and authentically.
Week 13: Potential for Eliciting Rejection or Acceptance by Your Words and Actions (An Audit of Self)
Reflect on how your words and actions impact your relationship. This week encourages self-awareness and growth through honest evaluation.
Week 13: The Relationship Enhancer: A Self-Evaluation and Feedback Exercise on Your Interpersonal Skills and Maneuvers
Engage in a self-evaluation exercise to enhance your relationship skills. This week provides feedback and insights to help you grow together.
Week 14: Reflecting on the Definition of Your Relationship
Define and understand the unique dynamics of your relationship. This week encourages you to reflect on your bond and its meaning.
Week 14: Let’s Work Towards Defining Your Relationship
Collaborate with your partner to define your relationship’s goals and values. This week focuses on creating a shared vision for your future together.
Week 15: Control and the Role It Plays in Your Relationship
Explore the dynamics of control within your relationship. This week provides insights into understanding and addressing control issues.
Week 15: Gaslighting
Understand the concept of gaslighting and its impact on relationships. This week offers strategies to recognize and address manipulative behaviors.
Week 15: Family Tree of Control: How to Explore and Understand Your Family Patterns of Control
Examine your family’s patterns of control and their influence on your relationship. This week helps you break free from unhealthy dynamics and create a healthier future together.
About Your Hosts
Andrew & Melissa Visagie
Andrew and Melissa are experienced clinical psychologists who have dedicated their careers to helping couples navigate relationship challenges. Their unique approach combines scientific knowledge with practical application, offering couples the tools they need to transform their relationships.
