Unlock the Secret
to a Fulfilling Relationship
Transform Your Relationship Today with "This Relationship Thing"
- 15 week course
Unlock the Secrets to a Thriving Relationship
Join and Transform Your Love Life!
Do you feel stuck in your relationship? Struggling with constant conflicts? Or simply want to take your relationship from good to great? Join our free webinar where Andrew and Melissa, clinical psychologists with over a decade of experience, share practical tips and insights to help you communicate better, resolve conflicts, and build a fulfilling partnership.
Discover the common pitfalls in relationships and how to avoid them.
Learn practical communication techniques to strengthen your bond.
Get a sneak peek into our comprehensive relationship course.
15 Hours of Therapy in One Course!
Embark on a 15-week journey to deepen
your connection & enrich your life.
Here's your roadmap to a fulfilling relationship
Improve Communication
Resolve Conflicts Efficiently
Deep Emotional Connection
Self-Awareness & Growth
Why choose
"This Relationship Thing"
No More Guesswork in Love
Only Proven Methods
Tailored to Your Needs
From conflict resolution to deepening your emotional connection, get tools that address your unique challenges.
One Size Fits All
Our strategies are universally applicable, whether you’re looking to prevent future issues or navigate current ones.
Adjust the Intensity
Work through the program at your pace, adjusting focus areas as your relationship evolves.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can "This Relationship Thing" help if we're already considering separation?
Absolutely. Our program is designed to address the root causes of relationship dissatisfaction, whether you’re facing communication breakdowns, emotional disconnect, or other challenges. By applying our strategies focused on empathy, conflict resolution, and deepening connections, many couples have found a new path forward together, even when separation seemed imminent.
Is this program suitable for long-distance relationships?
Yes, “This Relationship Thing” is highly effective for couples in long-distance relationships. The program’s tools and techniques are designed to enhance communication, foster emotional intimacy, and navigate the unique challenges of being apart, making it an ideal resource for couples regardless of distance.
How much time do we need to dedicate to see improvements?
The program is designed to fit into your lifestyle. Many couples begin to notice positive changes within the first few weeks by dedicating just a few hours a week to the exercises and strategies. Consistency and a genuine commitment to applying the principles are key to experiencing transformative results.
Are the strategies in "This Relationship Thing" supported by research?
Yes, every aspect of our program is grounded in clinical psychology and evidence-based practices. Our founders, both registered clinical psychologists, have incorporated the latest research in relationship dynamics, communication theory, and emotional intelligence to create a program that’s both effective and scientifically sound.
How do we handle disagreements about participating in the program?
It’s common for one partner to be more hesitant about trying new approaches. We recommend starting with our free webinar as a low-pressure way to introduce the concepts. The program is designed to be engaging and insightful for both partners, providing immediate value that can motivate continued participation.
What if our specific issue isn't directly addressed in the program?
“This Relationship Thing” covers a wide range of topics and challenges, offering versatile tools that can be applied to various situations. However, we also offer support and guidance through our community and additional resources for more specific or complex issues. We’re committed to helping every couple find solutions that work for them.
Can "This Relationship Thing" replace traditional couples therapy?
While our program can significantly enhance your relationship and may serve as a valuable resource on its own, it’s designed to complement, not replace, traditional therapy. For couples facing severe issues or needing personalized, one-on-one support, we recommend consulting a licensed therapist in addition to using our program.
Didn't Find What You're Looking For?
If you have any additional questions or need further assistance, please feel free to reach out to us. We’re here to help and would love to connect with you. You can contact us via any of our social media platforms or send us an email directly.
Transform Your Relationships with our Expert Course
Learn from renowned Clinical Psychologists
Are you ready to your relationship to the next level? Our comprehensive online course is designed to help you and your partner communicate better, resolve conflicts, and build a lasting, fulfilling relationship. Based on over 20 years of combined experience, our course provides practical tools and insights that you can apply immediately.
Comprehensive Modules
Covering empathy, communication, and conflict resolution.
Real-Life Applications
Techniques you can use in your daily life.
Expert
Guidance
Learn from experienced clinical psychologists.
Flexible
Learning
Access the course, anytime, anywhere.
What Clients Say About US
Johan van der Merwe
Cape Town
South Africa
Andrew didn’t just tell me what I wanted to hear; he challenged me to see how my actions were impacting our connections. It wasn’t always easy, but I felt a significant shift with every session. He has taught me not only to see things from another perspective but also to genuinely feel empathy in every relationship.
In my relationship with my wife and son, Andrew has guided me to truly come up to the surface and take a deep breath – literally, with the Wim Hof breathing technique to manage my stress and approach situations with a calmer perspective. This simple practice has made a world of difference in ho I communicate with my wife and connect with my son. His invaluable insights have been transformative.
Samuel Garcia
Johannesburg
South Africa
If there is one thing that changed in my life, and that I try to implement everyday in my relationship and in life, it is EMPATHY.
To see my partner, not as the enemy, but as a teammate. And to approach the problem as a challenge, together, as a team.
It is not me against her but rather US against the problem.
And when I get triggered, take a step back, ask WHY and WHERE does it come from, communicate it to her so she knows my past better and then face the problem.
Sometimes the problem isn’t a problem anymore when I just communicate that I triggerd.
Emily Thompson
Pretoria
South Africa
Kintsugi: the ancient Japanese art of repairing cherished vessels with silver or gold-coated lacquer, beautifully encapsulates the essence of SHIP and TRT with Andrew Visagie. This approach is dedicated to equipping you with the resources and skills necessary to transform your jagged edges into shimmering highlights of silver and gold. Andrew Visagie provides and empathetic and supportive space, fostering growth and healing.
Through this transformative journey, I gained a new perspective, finding peace and a renewed sense of self. Just as Kintsugi turns broken pottery into works of art, SHIP and TRT helped me embrace my imperfections and rebuild my relationship into something stronger and more beautiful that before.
About Your Hosts
Andrew & Melissa Visagie
Andrew and Melissa are experienced clinical psychologists who have dedicated their careers to helping couples navigate relationship challenges. Their unique approach combines scientific knowledge with practical application, offering couples the tools they need to transform their relationships.
